What You Think Is What You Get – For Now

Your life is all about you, nobody else. Don’t forget this…and no it’s not selfish.

I was watching something on TV recently that brought this point home in a very clear. I don’t remember the show, but the woman said, “Why can’t you just put yourself in my shoes for a while?” and the man said, “If I did, who would be in my shoes?”.

This is true for many people who are permanently stuck in someone else’s shoes and never wearing their own. They don’t have any idea what they really would want for themselves if they ever felt like they had a right to consider it.

So what you think, and therefore what you get, is what someone else thinks would be best for you from their point of view-not yours.

Another trap you can frequently fall into is looking at what someone else has done, what they have or who they appear to be and comparing yourself to them. It takes a conscious commitment to stop doing this and to allow yourself to follow your own path on your own time table.

As you create your own life blueprint and open a space for direct communication with/from your higher self this habit of comparing falls away to a great extent on it’s own.

Last weekend during the Blueprints for Life event in San Diego one of the attendees asked if something was “right”. It really can be very difficult to not ask that question. So you want to re-train yourself to answer your own question by remembering that the only thing that matters is if it’s right for you.

I had brought a vase full of beautiful roses to the event so we could have flowers with us in the room and on the second day as I looked at the roses I noticed that some were already bloomed fully. Some were still tightly closed and some were in various stages of unfolding. So I asked, “Which one is right?”

In the terms we normally use to judge situations or accomplishments, there would be a pre-concieved notion of what would be the expected look of a rose on day 2. And yet they were all beautiful and following their own path, their own time table for unfolding and exposing their beauty.

So after accepting that none of them were wrong, someone said, “It’s also possible that some of those who aren’t opening yet could die without ever opening.” Which is also true, as it is for many people.

An example of this from my own life is how I feel about where I live at the beach.

About 5 years ago I moved from Sonoma to 5 minutes from where I live now. I chose to move here and yet I didn’t really enjoy my time here. I compared the temperature unfavorably to other warmer beach locations I had lived. I compared the color of the water and the quality of the beach in the same way.

Consequently, as much as I tried to be fully present and embrace this place, I was only about 70% happy with it. So I left.

Last summer, after the disappointment of the real estate deal on Maui falling apart at the last minute, I had to decide on a new place to move to. It didn’t feel like Maui was the best place for me right then.

So where do I go after I decide I’m not going to the place that to me is one of the most perfect places on earth? God has a sense of humor and I was led back to the same place I had left a few years earlier. I was less than thrilled, but felt directed to be here, so I came.

Interestingly, my level of happiness with this place today is 100%. If someone told me I had to live here forever, I’d be fine with that. Quite a switch from last time or even from when I came here “to make do” until I figured out if I was still going to Maui.

You may find this hard to believe, but the weather has been amazing, in fact it’s seldom rained or been cold when I’m in town. The beach becomes more beautiful to me every day and the color of the water and the appearance of the surf is so interesting to me, I just love it. And there are days that I would swear I was on Maui if I didn’t know better, the ocean looks so similar.

So am I losing my mind? Am I kidding myself? I don’t think so. I think it’s a great example of when I change my thoughts, what I see changes and that in turn instills new beliefs that continue to change my thoughts…and so on and so on.

Two steps if you don’t like the result you are currently getting from what you think.

#1 Have an awareness of what you spend your day thinking about

#2 Create an awareness of the physical manifestation your thoughts lead to for you

This is a simple way for you to shift what you think about and what you get.

Until next week, I’d love to hear your thoughts.  Just comment on this post on my blog.

If you would like personal mentoring, send me an email detailing what you would like help with.  As your mentor I hold a bigger vision for you than you hold for yourself.  When you have faith and a team that believes in you, it gives you courage.  When you don’t have to do it all yourself, all things are possible for you.  Commit today to go for your dream 100%.

Lynn Pierce, the Success Architect, has taught people how to combine business and personal development to reach the pinnacle of success and live the life of their dreams for over 25 years. In addition, she is also the founder of one of the most exciting annual events for women entrepreneurs,
“Women’s Business Empowerment Summit”. Now she shares her keys to success and life mastery with you. You can get the first five lessons of “Change One Thing, Change Your Life: A Personal Transformation System” at http://www.yourbreakthroughtosuccess.com

I would love to have you share your opinions and personal insights on my blog where I’ll also post this article.

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What’s New

Quote to Contemplate

“When you see the best in people you inspire them to be what you see. ”

Lynn Pierce

What do you mirror for others?

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What’s New
Our live Blueprints for Life closed door intensive starts tomorrow in San Diego so I’ll be heading down to my suite at the waterfront resort this afternoon. I’m so excited for the women who are attending because I know their lives never be the same after these three days.

There is no feeling like walking back in your front door after the weekend knowing you are not the person who left the house just a few days before and feeling that empowerment in every fiber of your being.

It’s so humbling for me to witness the transformations that occur when a student is open and ready for a shift in their life and/or in their business. It takes a brave person to show up and say I’m ready to step more fully into my power, show up in the world as my authentic self and tell my truth.

For most of us that’s a huge leap to take, so I’m really looking forward to meeting the amazing women who are about to take this journey.

Speaking of that, if you aren’t joining us live and haven’t registered to listen to the 4 Blueprints for Life teleseminars on replay go to:

http://LynnPierce.com/ebff.html

I’m also just back from another Scottsdale/Maui/Scottsdale trip. I escaped the cold and rainy weather in Scottsdale and San Diego during the week I spent on Maui. I’m beginning to think I have weather ESP. It’s been a great winter of nothing but warm weather everywhere I go.

The week on Maui started with a relaxing weekend, another fabulous day at the Grand Wailea Spa and then a day of snorkeling with our mastermind before settling down to some serious work. I had a couple aha moments about my own business and you’ll be hearing more about that next week.

For a very small number of you I will be extending an invitation to spend some personal time with me and have a lot of fun doing what I enjoy most, but I can’t tell you any more yet. But if my life sounds fun to you, stay tuned.

The reason there was no ezine last week was because I actually sit down on Thursday morning and write from whatever inspiration strikes me at the moment. Last week while on Maui I made the decision to not get online, so there was no ezine.

Life happens, be ready for it. Click on the link below and get started creating a vision for your life, a plan for your future, your Blueprint for Life.

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Set your goals high enough that they require you to stretch your comfort zone and you’ll be amazed what you can achieve. Ask yourself, “What’s the one thing I can change this year to create the life of my dreams?”

Remember to join the conversation on my blog where you’ll also find each week’s ezine posted for your comments.

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Our Final Blueprints for Life Call

Thursday will be our final call before the live event in San Diego Feb. 20-22nd. When you register for this call you will also receive the replay links for the first 3.

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People often ask me how to keep looking forward and maintain a great feeling about their dream and not be distracted by where they are now.

Three simple steps in this question are the key to your success in anything you do.

If you don’t have the clarity of a laser focused dream followed up by a solid step by step process that allows you to focus on exactly how you’re going to make it a reality, it will most likely never happen. You need to be on this call if you want to get a different result in your life than the one you’re getting now.

I’ll break it down for you on Thursday’s call. I’ll also be answering your questions submitted using the link in your call welcome email.

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